Then 2 Becomes 3

The biggest adventure of our lives has begun. On June 15, 2015 the Brianja family added a member. It was the day we got to finally meet T – our amazing son. In our hearts we became a family of 3 that day, though it wasn’t until the following day our family became official in the eyes of the law:

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Just under 2, T came into our lives with a crazy amount of energy, a few amazing smiles and a lot of heartbreaking tears. Taken away from everything he knew – his nanny’s, his crib, his roommates and his name – he was confused and scared. After spending his life in an orphanage this small scared little boy was thrust into the unknown world with two strange looking faces by his side. The first week was tough for all of us. We fell in love immediately, but poor T spent a lot of time waiting for someone from the orphanage to come and get him. It was probably the hardest and best week of our lives. Everyday got (and continues to get) better. Each day he became more comfortable with us and we began to see a lot more smiles and laughs.

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We spent our first week as a family in the capital city of the province that T is from so we could obtain his Chinese passport. We spent the second week in Guangzhou in order to get his visa that would allow him to enter the United States and become a citizen. In those two crazy weeks filled with appointments and paperwork we experienced a lot of firsts for T. The first time he played in grass, took a boat ride, rode on a plane, and felt a strong wind in his hair to name just a few.

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We got one quick night in our home in Shanghai before jumping on a plane to New York.

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Our summer was spent introducing T to his extended family and chasing more paperwork (passport, visa to come back to China, etc.) A fun filled 3.5 weeks enjoying all our family and the U.S. has to offer.

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After almost 6 weeks of living out of a suitcase we are happily in Shanghai, bonding with T and introducing him to his home. While it hasn’t yet been two months, it feels like we have been a family forever.

Kuala Lumpur

The final stage of our trip back in April (Yes April, we’ve been busy and have not posted lately, more on that to come) included a quick 24 hours in Kuala Lumpur (KL), Malaysia. We spent an incredibly hot day touring some of the major city sites including the beautiful Petronas Twin Towers.

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Petronas Twin Towers as seen from our hotel room window.

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A taking in the night view from below the Petronas Twin Towers in Kuala Lumpur.

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Our two travel companions, Bs Godfather and Dad, waving hello from below.

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PTT Park at night

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A and B throwing up deuces at the Petronas Twin Towers.

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The Petronas Twin Towers as the sun rises for a hot day in KL.

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The view below from the Petronas Twin Towers skybridge.

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Bs father inside the Petronas Twin Towers (KL Tower in the background).

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Aerial view of KL.

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A posing for a shot inside the Petronas Twin Towers.

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Learning how to use some of the modern technology inside the Skybridge at the PTT.

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Looking down at the heart of KL.

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Little India KL.

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Little India and the KL Tower in the background.

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B and A spreading the love for KL.

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A on the streets of KL during a beautiful afternoon.

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KL

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Temple in KL.

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Canal running through the streets of KL.

Singapore

Following our excursion in Beijing we journeyed south to the small yet beautiful country of Singapore. We stayed in the heart of the capital, Singapore, and enjoy two days of R&R. Highlights of the trip included a stay at the famous Marina Bay Sands and a swim in the rooftop infinity pool looking out over the city.

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First view out to sea from the Marina Bay Sands

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Group picture from the deck at Marina Bay Sands.

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Dad posing atop the Marina Bay Sands with the island soccer field below and some clouds out in the distance.

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Downtown Singapore, the island pitch and part of the F1 track in.

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A and Dad swimming on the edge.

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Singapore skyline as seen from the Marina Bay Sands at night.

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Night swim and the Singapore Skyline.

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It was very calm in the early morning but already the temperature was very hot.

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Pictures from our run around the harbor.

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A perfecting her stride in front of the silhouette of the Marina Bay Sands.

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Fullerton Square.

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Daytime view of Singapore from the edge of the Marina Bay Sands.

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A taking in the view and catching some rays.

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B swimming in the infinity pool at Marina Bay Sands.

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Our traveling partners taking a break to relax in the pool and checkout downtown Singapore below.

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B achieving celebrity status at the Marina Bay Sands.

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As has become custom, checking out Chinatown in other countries. Singapore’s version is quite nice and full of great food.

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Chinatown in Singapore.

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Hindu Temple in Chinatown.

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Temple and the skyline.

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View of the Botanical Gardens from MBS.

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MBS as the sunsets, looking like it came straight out of Star Wars.

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View of the MBS from the Botanical Gardens.

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Beautiful light show set to music at the Botanical Gardens.

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Night view of the MBS.

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Backside of the MBS at night.

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Harbor walk in Singapore.

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Strolling the harbor as we head to dinner.

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A posing for a picture in front of MBS.

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Major laser.

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Laser show from MBS projected across the harbor.

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Perfect view of downtown Singapore.

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Swimming on the edge.

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One last look at the infinity pool at MBS.

 

The Great Wall Part III & Central Beijing

Our first excursion, with our out of town guests, on our capital city tour of Asia was to visit Beijing 北京. For the third time this year we ventured north to see both the Great Wall and the capital of China 中国. We departed from Shanghai 上海 early in the morning landed in Peking just before noon. We hired a driver to take straight from the airport out to the Mutianyu portion of the wall. The skies opened up, the temperature increased and it was a gorgeous day to hike on the wall.

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The first look of the Great Wall for Bs father. Always a plus to have the flag blowing in the wind.

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Distinguished gentlemen ascending to the top of a tower.

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Break atop the tower so we can test out the selfie stick.

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On guard! Who goes there?

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Group shot along the Great Wall.

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Revisiting the tower we camped in.

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All lined up along the wall.

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Taking on the Great Wall. Bs father hiking along the path like a young guard.

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Shot through the doorway.

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A and Bs Dad taking a break at the top.

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The picturesque view of the Great Wall.

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Self of B and A alpine sliding down the Great Wall.

After venturing down the Great Wall we headed to central Beijing. We took the night to explore noodles in the city and walk some streets. The next day we visited the world famous Forbidden City and Tiananen Square. We also stopped at the Temple of Heaven before boarding our return flight to Shanghai.

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A first look at Tiananmen Square for Bs Dad.

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Posing before the Forbidden City.

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Father and son at the Forbidden City.

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It was a hot and crowded day at the Forbidden City.

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One of the many temples inside the walls of the Forbidden City.

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A canal running through the inside of the Forbidden City.

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Our guests posing with a few other people.

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An artist inside the Forbidden City depicts an image of Bs Godfather in less than five minutes while walking next to us.

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Selfie stick time inside the Forbidden City.

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The crowd inside the Forbidden City.

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A little girl conducting a traditional Chinese dance routine inside of the Temple of Heaven Park.

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Group selfie at the Temple of Heaven.

Shanghai Spring

With family in town again, Bs Dad and Godfather, we took to the streets in Shanghai once more. In between our excursions in our home city we visited Beijing, Singapore and Malaysia (those posts to come). For now enjoy the pictures of our time in 上海.

The trip began with a rainy evening on the Bund.

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As seems to be the norm in Shanghai, it was a rainy spring.

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Bs Godfather and Father on the Bund.

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B and his Dad on the Bund.

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Bs dad at the Bund on a rainy evening.

We visited an old friend on food street to sample a variety of breakfast options.

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We sampled both old and new options including our favorite breakfast burrito (Dong Bing).

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A rainy food street.

We also took some time to visit the world famous skyline in Luijiazui 陆家嘴.

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It may have been overcast but the Shanghai World Financial Center was still an impressive sight, not to mention the added bonus of blooming cherry blossoms.

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As night crept in the glow from atop the skyscrapers left an impressive image in the sky. Here you cannot quite see the top of the Jin Mao (the nearly completed Shanghai Tower in the background)

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Our guests on the elevated walkway in the center of Shanghai.

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The SWFC glowing in the mist of a spring evening.

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Bs Dad posing before the famous Pearl Tower.

We also spent one night downtown in Puxi.

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A view of Shanghai through the rain clouds as weekend traffic flows through the heart of the city.

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Getting freshly made noodles.

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Noodles for lunch on the street in the former French Concession neighborhood of Shanghai.

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Delicious and enjoyable outdoor dining with all of the standard Shanghai elements to complete the ambiance.

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Taking a walk on East Nanjing Road (Shanghai’s version of Time Square)

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Bs Dad reaching celebrity status.

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Our guest in one of the busiest and most populated areas of the city.

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When celebrity status multiplies and gets out of control.

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The beautiful colonial buildings of Shanghai.

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One more shot from a busy night of exploring.

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The castle like hotel we stayed at by Peoples Square in the morning fog.

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One last visit to the Bund before Easter brunch.

 

When 2 becomes 3, a magic number…

The Brianja family has completed a roster move. With the receipt of their recent LOA they have completed a player transaction to acquire the adorable and lovable free agent T. Jerseys are already being printed with his nickname on the back, though he has yet to select a number. His contract stipulates that he must complete a physical and an abundance of paperwork prior to joining his new team. There has been a lot of speculation about when he will join the team but the latest reports indicate that T is expected to join the active Brianja roster this summer. The Brianja team highly anticipates T’s arrival. They are anxious to bolster their roster with his highly touted skills. T has a knack for stealing hearts, captivating fans and drawing loud cheers. Asked about his arrival, team co-captain A said, “We love him so much already. We can’t wait for him to be with us.” B, the other co-captain, had this to say, “We need his spark, the added noise, and of course good looks to round out our roster, add depth and increase talent.” The team looks forward to having T join them in Shanghai and travel with them to the United States. A spokesman for Brianja said that once T has adjusted to his new surroundings in Shanghai he will be available for photo ops, play, hugs and kisses. 

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Khmer Rouge and the Killing Fields

The Khmer Rouge came into power in 1975. Led by Pol Pot they immediately began to restructure society. Pol Pot believed that Cambodia should be a rural, classless and agrarian society. As a result, within just a few days of the Khmer Rouge coming to power, families were separated, jobs taken away and the entire population of Phnom Penh was forced to march into the countryside and work as slaves for up to 15 hours a day. Anyone who tried to disobey was immediately killed.

The Khmer Rouge declared it Year Zero, stopped the postal service, closed its borders and abolished currency, schooling, private property, foreign clothing and traditional Khmer culture.

Senior members of the former government and their families were executed. Pol Pot believed that all the various factions of the Khmer Rouge needed to be cleansed. This lead to an unknown number of people being killed, outside and within the Khmer Rouge party. The Khmer Rouge were finally toppled by the Vietnamese in 1978. While no one knows the exact numbers, during these 3 years and 8 months it is estimated that 1 in 5 Cambodians were killed, perhaps more than a million people. They were killed in executions, in killing fields, and by being starved and worked to death. We learned that one saying of the Khmer Rouge went something like this: Better to kill ten innocent people than let one enemy escape. With this motto, entire families, from newborns to the elderly were executed. During this time the world was clueless. The Khmer Rouge had completely closed Cambodia’s borders. They only invited those sympathetic to their cause, and took them on staged tours of their country.

While in Phnom Penh, we were able to drive a half hour to visit one of the many killing fields. It is estimated that about 17,000 men, women, children and infants were killed at the Killing Field of Choeung Ek. Bullets were expensive, so they were often bludgeoned to death. Previous to becoming a killing field, this land was a Chinese burial ground, where those who passed were honored and respected.

There are killing fields, such as this one, all over Cambodia, many surrounded by land mines or hidden in jungles. At Choeung Ek, when it rains, pieces of human bones and cloth rise to the surface. Below is a picture of the memorial at Choeung Ek. It is home to skulls and other bones from many, but not all, of the victims at this field. Many of the mass graves in this field have been left untouched, the Cambodian’s preferring to let the victims of the Khmer Rouge rest in peace.

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A memorial and place to pay respect to those murdered in this field, as well as those who perished during the Khmer Rouge genocide.

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1 of 129 mass graves

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Bone fragments and pieces of cloth will come to the surface after it rains.

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A tree that was used to kill many babies. All it took was one tiny head and one hard swing.

During the Khmer Rouge rule all schools were closed. Anyone with an education became an enemy of the state. The Tuol Sleng Museum was once a high school. In 1975 the Khmer Rouge took it over and turned it into a prison, giving it the code name S-21 (Security Prison 21). Those killed at the Choeung Ek Killing Field were first tortured here. Similar to the Nazis, the Khmer Rouge kept detailed records and today you can visit and look at the photographs of those who perished and the few who survived. Eventually, the Khmer party turned on itself and began torturing the killing their own.

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Due to the closed borders and a few Westerners’ lobbying on their behalf, the Khmer Rouge continued to be given a seat in the United Nations. In fact, from 1979 to 1990, the masterminds behind this genocide, were recognized as the only legitimate representative of Cambodia (at that time the country was called by another name).

The Cambodians, also known as the Khmer people, are recovering from a genocide and civil war that didn’t end until 1997. Those that we met were kind, helpful and proud of their cultural heritage, a heritage that was almost lost.

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Day 2 at the Angkor Temples

For our second day at the temples we decided to get up early to watch the sunrise over Angkor Wat (the most famous temple). We heard it was gorgeous, but also crowded. So we found ourselves biking at at 4:45am in the dark to see the sunrise. The sun rose slowly, between 5:30 and 7:30am, providing opportunities to take many pictures. Here are a few of our best.

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The massive amount of people at the temple to see sunrise.

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No I didn’t shrink, nor did B grow. He is standing on a rock.

We took a break from watching the sunrise to explore the inside of the temple, while most people were still outside.

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Look closely and you can see B!

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Taking a break with our friend from Shanghai, who was also visiting Cambodia.

 

It wasn’t long before we headed back to the front of the temple to catch more of the sunrise.

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At this point it was around 7:15am. So we decided to go ahead, take our bikes and see what else we could find. We headed straight to Bayon, the temple of many faces.

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We explored a few more temples and then went back to town, thoroughly exhausted and ready for a nap by the pool.

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Day 1 at the Angkor Temples

The temples at Angkor were abandoned for centuries, allowing the jungle to overtake them. The temples are what is left over from a 600 year period between AD 802-1432. During this time the Khmer Empire was one of the greatest in southeast Asia. The city of Angkor had a population of one million, when London was still a small town of 50,000. At that time houses were built of wood and therefore no longer exist. The temples however, were an entirely different matter. Angkor is the earthly representation of Mt. Meru, the place where the gods lived. One king after another tried to out build each other in the 400 square kilometers that make up the area. According to Wikipedia over one thousand temples remain, ranging in size from just a few bricks to the lofty Angkor Wat.

On our first day out we hired a tuk tuk driver and had him take us to the temples of Preah Khan, Preah Neak Poan, Ta Som, Pre Rup, Banteay Kdei and Ta Prohm. Sadly, except for the biggest named ones we lost track of which temples were which. However, some of the smaller temples were the most amazing. So without further ado, here are pictures from our first day.

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